Sunday, December 15, 2024

Confronting the Inevitable III

Sermon for the third Sunday in Advent 

The one you love
stands on the edge of an abyss,
over the edge,
utter darkness,
oblivion,
nothingness,
annihilation.

The one you love
cries out 
cursing existence,
cursing pain,
cursing you,
cursing life.

And then
the one you love 
walks off the edge of the abyss.

And yet,
in one movement of instinct
you dive
and grab your loved one's arm
holding tight,
preventing descent
into non-existence.

You have saved 
the one you love.

But your loved one 
cries in agony,
repeating the curses
rejecting your love 
rejecting your life.

Do you let go?

[PAUSE]

Surely it's selfish of you
to hold on.

Just because you love 
doesn't mean 
you should force 
someone to accept
your love 
by stopping them 
from making their choice.

But you will 
prevent your child
from sticking wet fingers
in an electric socket
even if 
your child really wants to do it.

And live
is the will 
for the complete happiness
of the other.

And someone who exists
is happier 
than someone who doesn't.

Ah,
but then a voice from the pit
says,
"someone who exists 
is unhappier 
than someone who doesn't."

But unhappiness,
is like darkness,
like evil,
like a hole.

That which does not exist
cannot possess
any happiness
just like it cannot possess light
nor can it possess 
any good.

Your loved one exists
and is happier now
than a plunge into the darkness
would achieve.

Happy memories 
still remain,
memories of love,
of excitement,
joy and fun,
these still remain.

By holding on,
your loved one 
is happier 
even if they are kicking
and screaming 
and swearing at you 
to let go.

They still have something 
to remind them
of the ecstasy 
of living.

It is your love 
that causes their pain 
but without your love
they would not be happy
in any respect.

[PAUSE]

You are God's loved one.

Just like everyone else.
Just like the saints.
Just like your family.
Just like the man over the road.
Just like the Muslim family 
down the street.
Just like Richard Dawkins.
Just like Kamala Harris and Donald Trump.
Just like Bonhoeffer and Hitler.

Every human being 
is God's loved one.

And God holds on.

Some of us reject Him 
and try to scrub out
His image from us.

Some of us
will prefer the idol
that we have made 
and pretend is God.

And when we see ourselves 
reflected against Christ
and choose to depart 
from His presence
thinking that
we can jump into the abyss,
God holds on.

God holds on
in perfect love,
holds on trying to give
the true happiness
that is being rejected
giving His grace 
which is ignored
or spat upon.

For some,
this is Hell,
but Hell isn't filled 
with everything unpleasant.

If anything,
Hell is life as we know it
but without any
awareness of God
without awareness
of His light,
His love,
His warmth,
His riches,
His kindness,
His joy in living.

God gives those 
who hate Him
what they want -
Life staring into the nothingness 
that is the absence of God.

For where God is not
there is only nothing,
and it is into that nothing
that the haters of God leap
and God holds on.

But God holds on
for Eternity 
because the life 
of the loved one
He is holding onto
is eternal too
and cannot change,
for change 
requires Time
and there is no time in eternity.

And no matter 
how much
we kick and scream,
God holds on.

God always holds on.

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