Children are horrible!
Any parent knows why
children are horrible.
They break your heart,
that's why.
"Don't go too near the edge!"
Splash!
"Mummy!"
"Leave that priceless antique alone!"
Crash!
"Mummy!"
"If you eat all that, you'll be sick!"
"Mummy!"
Scrub, scrub scrub.
There are times when children
just won't listen,
go their own way
and end up needing to be bailed out.
That's all very well, when it comes
to ponds,
Ming vases
and wet patches on the carpet,
but you know very well,
that there are some scrapes
that you can't get them out of,
and some that are positively terrible.
Being a parent
sometimes means
sitting down and weeping
for the child
that is on a dreadful path
because you can't reach them.
[PAUSE]
It's not for a want of trying.
You've taught them yourself,
they've had all the right lessons
in PHSE at school,
they've seen all the cautionary tales
on television
and yet, they still go down the path
that you know full well
leads to great pain,
and there's nothing you can do
because you've done everything.
Your child must take
the consequences of their actions,
and that is hard.
And when you know
those consequences
are now unavoidable,
all you can do is weep.
[PAUSE]
God weeps.
He weeps over Jerusalem,
over Ephraim His beloved child,
over the efforts of
thousands of artisans
and craftsmen whose faith,
blood, sweat and tears,
built the temple to worship Him.
He weeps because
He has come to them,
urged them to return to the Way,
showed them what the Scriptures mean,
commanded them to love,
love God,
love neighbour
love enemy,
and they will not listen.
They continue
along the same path
which is not the way
to salvation,
but the way to complete
and utter destruction.
God sees
and God weeps.
[PAUSE]
"Ah!" says the atheist,
"If God were all powerful,
then He would stop the consequences.
He would rescue them.
He would stop them from falling.
What God is this,
Who stands and weeps
like a big sissy?"
It seems like
these folk
have never really been parents.
If you love your children,
you love them as they are.
While you do your best
to teach them about life,
they have their own minds
their own lives,
their own experiences,
their own authentic selves.
They are not extensions of you.
While we are commanded
to honour our father and our mother,
we are not commanded to become
their clones,
and, if we're honest,
we don't want our children
to be carbon copies of us.
We want better for them
than that.
God has given us
our very selves,
our own separate beings.
We are not meant to be His clones,
but we are meant
to have a hand
in our own creation
in our own perfection
in our own reality.
God wants us to be
people who are truly authentic
and thar means
taking the consequences
that our choices have
upon our very selves.
He will not violate this,
any more than we can control
or would want to control
our children.
To violate this
would mean that God
would violate His own nature,
for His nature is Love.
He prefers the pain
of frustration,
of grief,
of suffering,
of the Cross,
than the destruction
of our being ourselves.
And,
while God the Father cannot suffer,
while God the Holy Ghost cannot suffer,
God the Son can,
because He has taken on
our full humanity
so that we can take on
His full divinity.
We can take on His divinity
but we can choose not to,
by failing to know Him,
by failing to receive Him,
by failing to love Him.
[PAUSE]
Our Lord stands and weeps
for those who choose destruction
rather than life.
He stands and rejoices
for those who return to Him
ready to share Eternity with Him.
Weeping may endure for a night,
but joy cometh in the morning,
the morning of Eternity's sunrise.
