Saturday, October 18, 2025

The nature of Love


Sermon for the eighteenth Sunday after Trinity

Of the 613 commandments 
of the Jewish Law
you know the top two,
don't you?

Love the Lord thy God
with all thy heart and soul
and mind and strength.

Love thy neighbour 
as thou lovest yourself.

Right?

Yes?

No!

[PAUSE]

The first commandment is correct.

The second isn't,
but the difference is subtle.

It isn't,
"Love thy neighbour 
as thou lovest thyself"
it's 
"Love thy neighbour as thyself."

Same difference?

Just different phrasing?

It's so much deeper than that.

[PAUSE]

In this day and age,
we see ourselves 
as individuals 
each doing our own thing.

More and more people
are choosing to live alone
so that they can live
their life by their rules.

We see people challenging 
even the most obvious 
and basic facts about the world
so that they can live
how they want to live.

The temptation that we have
is that we are in control 
of our identity 
and no-one,
not even society,
biology,
logic
or even God
has a right to say who we are.

We define ourselves,
on our terms
based on what 
we feel ourselves to be.

We are always looking 
for what makes us distinct 
from other people
particularly those
with whom we disagree most.

In this vision,
the human race
becomes nothing 
but a collection of individuals 
with no connection to each other,
no relationship of any depth
beyond the emotional,
no responsibility to each other
than just following the law.

There is no love there
apart from the feeling
of warmth and niceness
about someone.

And when that feeling ebbs away
so does love.

[PAUSE]

Love thy neighbour as thyself.

The Lord is challenging us
to look for the connection 
that unites all humanity.

He invites,
not forces us
to see ourselves 
in other people 
that,
at the very depth of our being
we share something,
something fundamentally human.

The Lord invites us
to see that the good 
that we want for ourselves 
is the good that we want for others
because we share human nature 
and God loves human beings.

The depths of God's love for us
is cross-shaped
- we know that so well.

But in being made man,
Christ unites each of us
in His humanity
so that we can be united 
in His divinity.

If we are each united in Him
then we are each united 
with each other.

The happiness we wish for ourselves 
is the happiness that God wants for us,
and is the happiness that 
we must wish for our neighbour 
precisely because,
whether we like it or not,
we share our humanity with them.

To paraphrase Dorothy Day
our love for God 
is measured by the love
we have for the one we love least.

[PAUSE]

It also means that 
we are worthy of love,
just by existing.

No-one is unloved 
even if we feel it,
even if we sit in the darkness 
of the misery of our fallen lives.

We are loved 
and that love is always 
close to us in God.

Let us, then,
let that love be close to others
in our lives and relationships 
with them.


Sunday, October 12, 2025

Equalising equality

Sermon preached at the Cathedral Church of St Augustine on the seventeenth Sunday after Trinity 

What does equality
mean for you?

We often hear 
quoted to us
St Paul's  words 
to the Galatians
that,
"There is neither 
Jew nor Greek, 
there is neither bond nor free, 
there is neither male nor female: 
for ye are all one in Christ Jesus."

So, we are all equal 
in the eyes of God,
is that right?

If that's true,
why are we all different?

We can understand 
that being a slave or a master
or being rich or poor,
or even Jew or Gentile
are products of human society.

But,
if we are all equal,
why did God Himself
create us
Male and Female?

Why are these 
not interchangeable,
especially when
having children is concerned?

[PAUSE]

Our Lord speaks
of how we should attend
a wedding banquet.

We are to go to the lowest room,
the lowest place,
so that we can be invited up,
and then find honour
in the eyes of the other guests,
whereas those
who take the best place
get told to move down.

There seems to be
a pecking order
at this banquet.

One room is higher
than another.

One person seems to be
regarded as more important 
than another.

Does this mean
that, at the Wedding Feast of the Lamb 
there will be higher and lower places?

Does this mean
that Our Lord
is saying that
human beings are not equal?

Of course,
the answer is yes!

[PAUSE]

Think about it.

In the Revelstion to St John
there are the four and twenty elders
who sit crowned on thrones
next to the Throne of God.

Do we really imagine
that in Heaven,
we shall sit next to St Peter
or St Paul,
or even at Our Lord's right hand?

Remember,
we're human beings
and human beings have bodies,
so we shall.be physically present.

We shall have a place in Heaven,
but will it be a place 
that's of honour?

Will it be a place
near to Our Lord's throne?

Or will it be nearer the door?

We know that it's common sense
that Our Lady will be closest to Our Lord.

She must have a place very near Him.

Our Lord Himself teaches
"Honour thy father and thy mother."

He must surely honour her
by giving her a place beside Him
in glory.

And He also says that 
"For whosoever 
shall do the will of my Father 
which is in heaven, 
the same is my brother, 
and sister, 
and mother."

[PAUSE]

Just like any wedding, 
the Heavenly Feast 
is ordered by relationship.

It is those whom 
the Bride and Groom love most
who sit nearest to them 
at the wedding. 

It is the same with God
that it is those who love Him most
will sit nearer to Him
in Heaven.

The more we love
the nearer to God we are 
because God is Love.

Those who care more about
their status,
their rights 
and entitlements,
their nation and culture
cannot have a higher place.

In God,
human beings are equal
in their salvation
in their opportunity 
to love each other.

We all have the same opportunity 
to sit at the Wedding Feast of the Lamb 
regardless of
our race, our status and our sex.

It is how we view that opportunity 
that matters.

We are not created 
to be identical
nor to be interchangeable,
but to have the same opportunity 
to know and love God
as the person He has created.

[PAUSE]

Political equality
is concerned 
about ensuring people
are the same under law.

This is where the language 
of rights,
benefits,
entitlements
and duties comes in.

These may have their beginning 
in justice and the desire for good,
but we see them become 
ends in themselves:
rights to be clung to,
benefits that are rightfully ours,
entitlements that we must fight for.

Political equality
quickly loses faith, 
because people trust their rights
rather than God;
it loses hope 
because when entitlements are not met,
life is somehow not worth living;
and it loses love
because we focus more 
on the right to be loved
rather than the duty to love.

The Pharisees 
with their sense of entitlement 
move further down 
from the place of honour
because the Heavenly seating plan
is based upon love of God 
and neighbour,
not social or political entitlement.

[PAUSE]

We should not care 
where we sit in Heaven,
for wherever we sit,
we shall know the love of God:
it will be the same feast
that we enjoy together.

He invites us all, 
equally, 
to join Him in the Feast,
and, wherever we sit,
we shall be in good company 
for it is a company based on love.

Saturday, October 04, 2025

Rehabilitating the dead


Sermon for the sixteenth Sunday after Trinity

When was
the last time
you visited
a cemetery?

They're not as busy
as they used to be.

These days
more and more people
are choosing to be cremated
and have their ashes
scattered to the four winds
rather than be buried
in a cemetery.

As a result, 
fewer people 
enter cemeteries
to pay their respects.

If that continues, 
the cemetery will become
a place where 
the dead are forgotten. 

Doesn't that strike you as sad?

[PAUSE]

Maybe you don't think so?

Maybe, 
ending up forgotten 
is just part and parcel
of our daily lives.

After all, 
we don't spend our days
wishing 
our great-great-great-great-great grandparents
were still here.

That's because
they died a century or two
before we were born.

We can't be expected
to remember those 
who died 
before we were born.

So it seems
our ultimate destiny
in life is to be forgotten. 

[PAUSE]

The trouble is
that the widow of Nain
faces the same fate.

With her son dead
she, too, is as dead.

She has no income
no one to care for her
in her old age.

No daughter in law
no grandchildren.

In taking her son
out of the city 
to the cemetery, 
she may as we stay there
among the dead,
after all,
everyone else whom
she has loved
and who have loved her
are there.

Yes, she comes out
to bury her son
with many people of the city,
many people mourning 
with her,
standing with her,
and showing compassion 
for her. 

But,
they will have to go back
to their own lives
and loves,
and leave this widow.
whose heart is buried
in the cemetery, 
silent and forgotten. 

[PAUSE]

As we watch this poor woman 
and the people of the city
walk solemnly 
to the place of the Dead,
we see another crowd coming,
bustling with wonder
and curiosity
about a man
who nor only preaches
wonderful things
but can heal people
even from a distance.

Their conversation 
is nor about death
but a new lease of life
that has been given to them
by this new rabbi.

Life meets death.

Our Lord shows 
that he does not just heal
but he raises the dead
and makes it look easy.

In a moment 
the funeral ceases to exist.

The journey to the cemetery 
is abandoned. 

And the cemetery itself
forgotten once more.

The place for the Dead 
does not receive 
another set of visitors.

[PAUSE]

Our Lord shows us
that cemeteries
are places to be forgotten. 

Let's not get confused.

In Christ,
the cemetery is forgotten 
because
they are empty
when the dead are raised to life.

Cemeteries
are just temporary arrangements
because we look for
the Resurrection of the Dead.

And all will be raised.
No-one will be forgotten. 

For God knows us all.

He remembers
even those whose graves
are unmarked
snd forgotten. 

And He will raise them
because He loves them
just as He will raise us
because He loves us.

God is not a God of the dead
because the dead
cannot respond to Him.

A dead body loves God
about as much
as a stone does.

God is God of ths living
so that the living
respond to Hiim

Love requires a response.

And so God makes sure
that all who have lived
will still be able
to respond to the love He shows them.

And if that means raising the Dead,
well, that's not a problem.

[PAUSE]

Our destiny
is not the cemetery 
or crematorium. 

God makes sure of that
and as a sign of that destiny, 
He gives the Christian funeral,
where the crowds of disciples
meet the crowds of mourners
in compassion for the loss 
but also as bearers 
of the witness that Death is not the end.

O Death, where is thy sting?
O Grave, where is thy victory?

In Christ,
the vistory of the Grave
is to be forgotten. 

There won't be anyone left
In there to remember.